Golovna - Bill in the eyes
How often do we wear masks? (Philosophical treatise). Julius Fast. Masks that people wear Psychological masks of people

A year ago, I already wrote an article. ” We really do not know all the thoughts of other people. Today, I wrote to continue the topic from the other side.
We must wear different masks.We wear them in front of colleagues, kerivniks, supporters. Mi wearable їх before sіm'єyu, your partner. Know them less in front of yourself and don’t worry about it.

Does that mean masks to us?

We often have to put on masks through suspense. Aja is a fallow land in which we live, and that which we borrow from life, we have to play a different role. We can take the fate of a child, a teacher, a spivrobitnik, a robotic giver, a teacher, a mentor, a person, a friend and a lot of others. For example, as a robot, you are a strict boss, coming home,be broughtperebudovuvatisya, schob not behaving so by itself with relatives. But if you are a child, then with your fathers you should behave one by one, but with your friends we will behave in a different way.

So people try to be better, lower it’s true, that stench is covered with masks, if you get to know new people or chat with friends. Shvidshe for everythingWe're afraid that if we show us right, we may not be worthy of them, be beaten by them. We try to fit into the prison, to become a part of the suspense.

Prote, most of the time, masks help us capture our spirits, moods and thoughts.We don’t want to take advantage of our own problems and experiences, we don’t want to tell everyone about our depression, about disappointment in life, about our fears. A lot of people all the same do not understand everything. It’s already easy to comprehend another person, as if you don’t see those emotions that won’t. And for the most part, some people have their own problems and troubles, so they don’t have the strength to be able to listen to us.

No one knows what a person is really seeing, she can laugh and have fun, if she chats with her friends for the sake of it. Vіn can zhartuvati and on all power supply vіdpіdati, scho everything is luxurious. Aleksey vin is no longer alone with himself. You know, it’s like a dress. Only at home people can tell their loved ones about their experiences, problems, and then don’t worry, but at night, if one is deprived, wine you can marvel at the window and cry.There may be plenty of reasons for confusion: undivided kohanny, schools have enough, or the loss of loved ones ...


We must wear different masks. We are all led in a different way, fallow in the conditions of that sharpening. We play different social roles and away. Ale, the most terrible here, do not take off the mask in front of you. Marvel at the mirror and fool yourself. It doesn’t mean that you’ve spent yourself right ... Don’t be ashamed of yourself, be welcomed by yourself and your loved ones. Be correct. Success!

We all wear masks. It doesn't sound right. Tse umovne vznachennya of our hypocrisy. Lyudina graciously seizes her inner life under the guardian rank, which makes a deep glance.

At the statue, there are 6 main types of masks, widely widened among people.

To get stuck in some sort of furnishing by yourself is really important. Tse require majestic vitrates of spiritual energy and masculinity. Most of us are not ready for such sacrifices. To that, in order to preserve peace of mind and that comfort, we are “wearing a mask”.

Look around on all sides. You sing an indistinguishable number of osib. Frowning, cheerful, angry, ironic baiduzhi, malignant. Ale stink zovsіm not those who give up. Behind the skin appearances, there is our own inner light, which is radically changed in the light of what we are.

No matter how paradoxical it may sound, but the masks protect our souls from the evil negative intrusions and rip the psyche from the shocks. The defender is even more despicable, but he threatens with insecurity. On the right, in the fact that inventing a zahisny image may have power to "grow" into human reality and transform it.

Here, for example, you can bring an old parable. She tells about one mandriving man. Mandruyuchi the earth, having consumed the world of the deaf and those of them. Lyudina is small, a miraculous voice, a delicate ear, but zmusheniya buv imagine one of the best. The fates passed, and the mandriving man turned to his light. But if you try to sleep and hear the nastiness, then you will reveal with a flicker that you can’t get into it. Vіn ruined his gift, pretending to be deaf and mute.

Those that we wear are subject to classification. We have 6 main types of masks, which we can see at once.

That specialness is strong in itself

Such a mask is put on by the guards of all ranks. Until then, I'm planting crops. In a special life, wives rise to the leader’s throne, as if they made friends for weak and powerless people. The stinks take on the whole load of the family, and in the eyes of the ochouchy they look like absolute vodkas. Their men are “under the guards”, the children diligently start, the booth has an ideal order.

In the souls of such heroines, there is always a presence of anger, so that inventing an image often does not have anything sane with the true. Vladna woman is already very old, even though her body is weakened by internal rubbing. Zhіntsi wants to be weak, bezakhisnoy, bazhanoy, scarlet day after day to put on the mask of an energetic and self-imbued master.

Good nature and gentleness

Such a "disguise" for weak people in power. The stench vibrates psychological zahist in the strong character of people. You know about the negativity at the garage, drinking a platter of juices for example of the day. Fishing also helps, go to the beach for a football match. Such people are constantly guilty of guilt before themselves and those close to them. Here, at the depths of the soul, the stench of the mind, scho could reach a greater life, but mediocrely lived a rich fate, as it is no longer possible to turn around. 3 such people often go alcoholics which makes the problem worse.

Sacrifice

Zustrichayutsya in life individuals, ready to sacrifice themselves for the sake of other people. Stink to create your own idols, inspired by your own kind of career and material goods. Natomist with whom nothing is taken away. Ale їhnya behavior only at first glance seems to be wondrous. Indeed, the skin condition of such people is ordered by a zhorstky logic. In a distant childhood, they ignored them, belittled their significance. Afterward, which in the soul viniklo all-poly-pochutya visualize.

Yogo needs to be drowned out, lifted up in your eyes, those eyes of the resting ones. And here the panacea is a dishonorable victim. Vaughn viklikaє almost povag, іnkoli well і svіchutya. Such a mask is more importantly powerful for women; Many representatives of the beautiful state are happy in their own way and respect such a way of life for a day.

Eternal clown

Є people who zavzhd all zmіshayut. The stench knows a bunch of anecdotes, jarries, bribes. It is simply impossible to be serious about them, and it seems that such special features have an easy, thoughtless reckless nature. Ale tse nonsense. Really, everything is wrong. At the soul of the "eternal clown" fear constantly sits. Vin is afraid to appear uncommon and useless.

Most often in childhood, such a person was an ungrateful child. Malyuk tse postiyno vіdchuvav and deeply worried. The fates passed, but the fear was gone. To that, joviality is pretentious, “grown into the soul” with a zahis mask, when you have tried the baiduzhnosti and the baiduzhy setting on the side of the closest people.

Soul of the company

Such people should be the first to be the first to act. Great companies always set the tone. The stench sing the best, dance the best, say beautiful toasts and shrivele with a wild pomp and hoarding. Behavior of the stench is always unmistakable and instilled, and the respect of others is taken as faithfully. But all the same, it’s only a mask, for which there is a smut - that fear of the future is empty of the soul.

Having created the image, that darling of the share has overcome, such a person is already afraid of a blow. Vіn deep perekonaniya, scho navkolishnіy svіt only th to rob, scho respectfully postorіgaє for yogo successes. But there is no insurance for pardons. It may be skinny, but for the "soul of the company" such a scenario for the development of a future means a new collapse. Youmu can't stand the thought of wasting his status in the eyes of the restless.

Such a model of behavior, as a rule, is imposed on children by children. To love everything, pamper and instill, which is the best wine. Postupovo vinikaє gliboke perekonannya in the rightness of the fathers. Ale z vіkom come life dosvіd, and with it the understanding of the one who grew up had mercy. Know yourself for the sake of it. Zvіdsi and fear of possible failures, yakі can cause a serious blow to the psyche.

Sira Misha

People are not seen in any way from the wild masses. Vіn spokoіyny, vitrimany, do not see the star from the sky, she does not attach to herself elevated respect. At the school, he is a firm "good student", at work - a sumptuous practitioner. There are no problems like such an individual, that people are like it.

But no one can guess that behind the deep vrіvnovazhenistyu hovaetsya almost deep self-sufficiency and emotional isolation. Іnodi "siri mishi" to shy suicide chim shout shock at otochyuchih. Ale, stink, don’t throw a call to the suspense and don’t go to the barricade. High soulful blows are absolutely far away from them. Such a mask in our days corries out for singing popularism. The current world is even more hisstical, and to that it gives rise to "orphan bears" among the great number.

Nasamkinets should signify that masks help not only to live, but to survive. At the same time, it is necessary to periodically notice them, so that the stench does not grow into the soul and do not replace the right human being.

Otherwise, the high possibility will forever be lost on the stage. Adzhe svit is a theater, and we are all actors. And what psychological roles do you play?

What are these masks? In essence, these coping strategies are accepted, albeit zastosovuєmo, in order to get out of important situations in everyday conflict. The stinks protect us like armor, but they can cross over from the nearest ones. Knowing what a zahist we called out victorious, we can begin to heal from past wounds and enjoy the right closeness to other people.

If you want to copy strategies for different types of flooring, like our specialties, there are ten of the most typical masks.

1. Cool and indestructible

With all the good looks of this person, let me understand that she won’t be left calm in any situation. Utrimuyuchis over the sickness of the hour of conflicts in the middle of chaos, marvel at you from the self-control of Tibet.

However, at the same time, one of the two speeches is spoken.

It’s too early to clog up the dance of emotions to a nervous sight. Otherwise, the valve periodically presses on the valve and releases a couple, if nothing is left. A calm and undisturbed barefoot can sigh and shout at the cashier in the supermarket, or send a devastating leaf to the wicked, like a little pardon. Ale, do not boast - in any way you control the situation, you know who can be chosen for the role of a switchman, and who not.

2. Humorist

Humor is a gleaming sour mechanism. If you laugh, then you don’t cry anymore. Although for an hour it still looks even more similar.

Humor can help you get closer, not let you get close to you and find out what is in your soul.

The humorist is hot, so that Rozmova did not become deep and real, so that the discussion and exchange of thoughts would disappear. Impossible to listen to a partner until the end, wear a mask of a humorist and close the topic with heat. So we uniqe the conflict, but do not solve the problem. Zvikly zhartuvati s be-any kind of drive, the humorist does not let anyone close and in some way he becomes self-possessed.

3. Vіchny vіdminnik

Deyakі people become vіdminniki not through love to five and five letters. For them, a price mechanism.

If everything is broken up correctly, it means that the heavenly world will not shatter into pieces. Surely, the life of the magistrate has moments of acceptance. Vіn otrimuє his hvilina glorify that praise, but yogo companion is forever deprived of anxiety - the turning point of the mask.

In the distant life and in the hundred days of the eternal warden, there is a fear of a pardon. In partnerships with yoga, positive and penetrating qualities - arrogance, obsession with an idea - can sometimes play the opposite.

4. Martyr-Ryativnik

We know rich people, like to burn on robots, samovidno ryatuyut light and go to be-like sacrifices for the sake of loved ones. From one side, the stench of the building, pojdnati sіm'ї svoїchuttyam, from the other side - can be quiet, who to love them, through postyni rozpovidіdі about their victims. The stench is doing good - and I'm looking forward to doing some drama from it.

The martyr should not occupy his place with the world and believe that he can grow, only as much as I play the most important role in one's life. Ale tse zmushuє people feel nіyakovo order іz іz і to bring discomfort to іnоsini.

5. Buhler

Be it a team, de we had to practice, for our own sutty - the fifth grade of a middle school on a break. Shkіlny dvіr z usіma vіznovidіv bulerіv, sіkh vidіv і vіdtinkіv.

These control methods can be even more subtle. The stench vikoristovuyut m'yaku manipulation, schob zmusit you think, like a stench - otherwise an aggressive onslaught, right up to the zatosuvannya of brute force. Buller looks impenetrable, handing out messages to everyone and establishing his own rules, but behind his mask, there is innocence and burning knowledge.

Buller will require so much honor and recognition that he is ready to take them away at any cost, breaking down all kinds of cordons.

6. Lover of all control

You need to be inspired, that everything is lying on its own places, you should be neatly burnt into linings and sharpened olives.

Like a trigger-kvochka, I don’t let anyone out of the field of dawn, and I’m vigilant for all those who entrusted, I don’t want to stink like that. Controlling everything and everything, such a person copes with his main fear of homelessness, insignificance.

Would you like to know who your best friend is to wear a control freak mask? Vin to show himself, as if it were not so, as if he had planned.

7. Samoyed

The one who suffers from the most chronic and zanedbany depression of innocence in himself, involuntarily instills the same stature in others.

Hurry up to lower yourself down to the point where you can destroy someone else. You can believe it, it is possible that you are not aware that you are so hiding yourself in such a way. Vіn unikaє whether there is a risk and a water hour - whether there are some hundred days.

8. "Already accepted people"

Vіn is ready for anything, to earn praise quietly, who is in order. As if your honed colleague, who constantly asks friends, experts, coaches, then tse vin - “I’m already a welcome person.”

Just look, those values ​​are often mimicry for a long time of the same day, fallow in the situation. To the fact that this manifestation about oneself is more or less formed from the thoughts of other people, and without them one simply wastes oneself.

9. Movchun

People under this mask are simply afraid of pardons and reprimands. Better than self-tolerance, lower risk and slay those who might not be worthy of someone. It’s not enough to say it’s not enough, I’m afraid to say the wrong thing.

Like a perfectionist, a person, like hovaєtsya behind the mask of a movchun, vvazha: everything that is said and to fight in this world, we can buti get it right. I want to bring the whole world of the world with our eyes to the opposite.

10. Eternal party-goer

He already knows a lot, the calendar of appointments is filled with requests for the worldly visit. It’s possible, in yoga life there is no sense, it’s possible, you fill your days with evenings and visits, so that you don’t have an hour to think about it.

Chi everything is simpler, and his only talent - all the talk of the world?

07
Lipen
2015

A laugh that will take the soul.

I use a lot of methods, for the help of which we can protect the special zones. One of them is the use of masks. A person, as if we were seeing the light, only in a few moods is our help. To show on individuals in our lives those that we can see in a right way, are respected as a sign of an unusual, possibly abnormal behavior. Instead, in order to reveal the light of our senses, we suborder the suvoriy discipline of the manifestation of our appearance and our bodies.

Dr. Yervin Hoffman, in his book “Behavior in the Greater World,” declares that the obvious evidence of discipline is our respect for excellence, clothes and stripes. For the help of my old look, clothes and zachіski we richly tell about ourselves to our friends and colleagues. Dr. Hoffman designates what to look at as an average person in our society, what to show up neatly dressed and seriously shaved, wrinkled and combed in the vast world. The following, written six years ago, did not take to the point that young people can appear in the court of old, not combed hair, unshaven, but looking at them will be more unbalim and rozkutim. However, the whole view is now primordial, the shards have become in line with the globally accepted ideal.

Hoffman pointed out to those who during the day, for example, at the peak of the hour near the metro, relatively put on the masks of the Trochs from us and began to remember the viraz “the righteous and the deadly vtomi”, which, in a right way, reveals our right guise. We are trying to manage our own mechanism and through this we forget to control our appearance. Try to marvel at the appearances of people at the relocated bus, subway car and railway car at peak hour at the end of the working day. Marvel at the skіlki of naked human nature in all guises.

Today we are curving the bare human essence. We try to ourselves under suvorim control, so that our body, due to non-balance, does not splash out the names of those that our mind could not catch. We are constantly laughing at that, that a smile is not only a sign of cheerfulness, but rather a sign of cheeriness, our bad signal.

I am instructing you at a refurbished restaurant. My sing-song means: “I don’t want to respect you, but the only place is free.”

I hooked you up at the elevator cabin, and my chuckle explains to you: “I don’t want to show aggressiveness. Vibachte me be kind."

The unsupported sound of the bus knocks me out of the air, so I fall on the next passenger. My smile seems to be: “I can’t fall on you. I ask for your forgiveness."

And so we laugh for a whole day, wanting to be truly angry with me. On robots, we laugh at our clients, our bosses, our supporters. We laugh at our children, our judges, our people, squads and relatives. In fact, only a small part of our real smiles. Bigger is less than a mask, as we wear it.

Take the fate of a masquerade like a m'yazi individual. We mask all our bodies. Women learn the art of sitting in such a way that they can acquire their sexuality, especially if they have short spines. Stink to wear bras in order to trim the breasts on the floor and attach sexuality. We trim ourselves directly and zastіbaєmo on all the gudziks of the shirt, draw in our lives and go to different ways of masking the guise. We have individuals for evening parties, and for robots, we have funeral specimens. Navіt for vyaznitsi mi may special individuals.

Dr. Phillips writes in the book "Etiket in the Yaznitsa" that new comprehensions are being learned, as if they would be apathetic and characterless viraz denunciations. If the wounded are left alone, then the stench, as compensation for the long wearing of the mask of baiduzhnosti, begins to smile more, laugh and express your hatred to the prisoners.

With rocky masks it is more and more important to wear. For active women, like all their lives, they relied on the beauty of their appearances, it becomes more and more important to lie "take your own appearance at once." Old people loosen the m'yazi disguise. With rocks, the cheeks of the daedal droop more. frowning brows do not separate, and wrinkle faces do not smooth out.
Take off the mask.

I will blame the situation again, if the mask falls off. At the car, if our special zones expand, we often see that we can throw off the masks. Decals, if you want to hang on our tail or crash into a row in front of us, we begin to throw streams of likes, as if to oppose our overreacted reaction. Why do we find strong emotions in such a bad mood? Why is it that we are so vilified, that the machine is robbing us, why should it come close to us?

On the right, in the fact that in such situations we become invisible and the need for a mask arises. We react to this very vehemently.

The removal of masks often tells us that it is necessary to wear a mask. The mask is often thrown off at psychiatric clinics. Psychic ailments, like a person of a frail age, you can ignore the rich sound of accepting masks in the suspension. Dr. Hoffman told about the mental illness of a woman who had an incorrectly dressed back. Vaughn tried to straighten her back, pulling everyone’s back up in the air, but if she didn’t have it, she took everything with her and then dressed all the clothes correctly.

Ignoring such an extraordinary way of disguise like clothes, disrespect to your own old look and look after yourself as obvious signs of mental discord. Navpaki, the first sign of mental dressing up is interest in one’s own starry look.

So, just like a progressive mental discord, the patient is confused about reality, straying in the ways of verbal expression, speaking speech, as if not to think of anything spontaneous with action, this process is worthy of understanding the language correctly for help. Here you also make contact with the real world. Vіn robit declare, like normal people do not sound out loud. Vіn vіdmovlyаєє to trymuvati suspіlnyh minds and act like this, nibi vіn cease to give respect to the navkolynuyu audience.

And yet, the loss of mentally ill control over our body can give the key to the understanding of what is in yoga. At that hour, as a patient, you can stop talking, you don’t stop speaking your thoughts through the language of the body. Vіn can vyslovlyuvat correctly chi pardon mirkuvannya, that yogo body is impromptu “lock”. At the same time, you can stream your language of body, as if you were acting like it is accepted between people. In other words, if you know yourself wisely, you will be between the flow of information of my body.

And if it’s reasonable to repair wines, then wines, obviously, are reasonable. There are no other criteria for the appointment of a reasonable one. Therefore, a divine person can speak out his divine deed and in such a rite tell about the light of my body. In times of mental illness, the messenger is a cry for help. Such a look at the behavior of people with mental disorders opens up other paths for their delight.

Masking is impromptu to cover up mimic diy. The situation is tense, making people cringe, and there are no opportunities to take it easy. In other unusual situations, people may begin to shake their hands or three legs. We can prihovat and show praise, putting your hands in the gut, or squatting and in such a rank taking a vice on three legs. We can also collapse quickly, so that our tremtinnya is not remembered. Fear can be prihovaniyami energіynym іyami, directing to the adoption of the causes of your fear.
Mask, yak not go out of disguise.

The need for masking the flooring is great, because the process becomes fleeting and the mask is already impossible to remove. Іsnuyut deyakі situation, like, for example, with a statutory act, if the mask should be taken in order to take away the fullness of the malt, a lot of us can take off the mask less in the dark. Lyudina is afraid that her body was talking about her partners. For riches, winding up the darkness is not enough for taking masks. They can’t take off the shell from the darkness, as they protect themselves under the hour of the state act.

To Hoffman's thought, I explain the great number of frigidity among middle-class women. However, in his studies, Kinsі showed that women from the robotic class go to the strimanity in the state of women in the greater world.

Part of our knowledge about those, as a consequence of masking one’s own feelings, is stuffed as a result of intercourse with other people, and part is the result of special codes of conduct. The description of masquerading is often found in books of etiquette. These books dictate what follows and what does not follow the work of my body. In one book it is written that one should obscenely rub one's face, stick one's teeth, or clean one's nails in public. What you need to work with your body and your guises, if you speak your friends, is accurately described in the book of Emilia Post's etiquette. It is written in її knizі navit that next do not cherish women in the vast places.

Bagato ruled etiquette є zagalnopriynyatymi for all people, but chimalo rule vіdrіznyayutsya one type of one in the fallow of the cultural environment.

The deyakі aborigines of Australia vyyavlyayut vvіchlivіst, unikayuchi marvel one of one in the eyes. And in America, it’s important to marvel at one another in the eyes of the hour of conversation.
When the specialty ceases to be the specialty?

Whether the culture blames the situation, if the mask can sleep. The black inhabitants of the pivdenny states know the "hateful look" of the whites, which is the only way to shout out to the color of the coat of their spy. That same look, directing at a white person, may be provoking, it’s less like an unacceptable veneer of the one on whom the directing is “forget the hatred”. The culture of behavior in the pivdennih states is not allowed, so that the black marveled so at the white for the everyday surroundings.

One of the reasons why a person allows herself to throw off the mask of her own appearance, lies in the fact that, from the look of a white resident of a pivdnya, black is not a specialty, wine is a subject, about thoughts and experiences of which one does not varto zamislyuvatisya. However, on Pivdni, black Meshkants make their own signs. For the help of the singing rush of the eye of a black man, you can say to another, that he is a black brother, if you want his skin so light, that you can go for the white one. Aleksey ruh eyes can get ahead of the black one, having reminded him: I see myself for white. In the family of children, they are often seen as signs of special features. Similarly, put i before the servants. It is possible to see, but it is possible, not to see, we care that there is no trace of wearing a mask in front of these peculiarities. We are not afraid to pick up a little bit of peculiarities. Yakі they can buti feel, sob їх it is possible to catch them?

The goals of the setting sound as if they were showing a class approach. The class that is known in the mountains in the court, behave like this according to the age to the class that is known below. We do not obligatory urge to put on a mask on the robot in the presence of our child, at home - in the presence of our servant or our child.

I'm sitting at the restaurant with my retinue. Two wives of a frail age were sitting across the table facing us, drinking their cocktails. Everything in them - from their farm to the zachіsok - shouted at the whole restaurant: "Wealth!" This behavior was no more than a reminder. At the rearranged restaurant, the stench roared one after another so loudly that their voices lulled all over the hall. Prote zmіst їhnіої rozmovi stosuvavsya їхніх special and navіt іntimnyh prava. As a result, the decision to introduce the restaurant, in order to preserve the illusion of self-reliance, was to behave like this, don’t smell anything from the two women, but move with effort, so as not to pay respect for the rich dialogue of these women.

Two women told my body: “You don’t have the same meaning. You are all, in fact, not people. You are special features.

It is less important than those who we choose to rob, but at the cost of no one is guilty of benevolence.

In order to victorize your own body for the transfer of this sheet, two women victorious voice. At the same voice, specific information was transmitted, and at once other information, as if it were heard, they were transmitted for help to the body.

At the induced vishche, the mask is thrown off, but instead serve to express contemptuous staging to other people. Taking the masks off in front of a special reality is often not unmasking. We take our masks on our faces for the most part. There are important reasons for this. It is often unsafe to take off the mask. If a marriage is approaching us on the street, then, as if we don’t want to give anything to you, it’s important for us to give it away, we can’t do it here, and we don’t need it. We fasten our mask, let's go or hurry up. If we are allowed to take off the mask and look at the zhenuk as a special feature, we will not only turn to face our own conscience, but we will be able to stand up in front of this begging look, with good words and try to lead us to zbentezhennya.

The same can be said about the rich variety of vipadkovy zustrіches. We cannot allow ourselves to spend an hour exchanging words and kindnesses, accepting, from my minds. There are a lot of people around us. At the village or the primorsky residential quarters on the right in a different way. That's why people there go less into masking.

In addition, showing our correct appearance, we exclaim ourselves for the unacceptable tumults of our nature. Hoffman kindly revealed the situation on the butt of the psychiatric hospital. Vіn describing one patient of the middle years, which gradually roamed the corridors of the likarni, holding a newspaper and a parasol in a holster in his hands. On the yoga guise of a buv viraz people, as if they were sleeping on business. For which ailing person it was superimportantly important to go in, no more than a great businessman, even if I didn’t deceive anyone, let’s embrace ourselves.

In similar lands, masquerading can be done by a simple physical process. Sounds like wearing a burqa and a veil allow women to capture their emotions and protect their types of aggression from people. In these lands, the language of the body is haunted and respected, that a person, for the least provocation from the side of a woman, should be forced to impose a state of stosunki. The burqa allows the woman to adopt a part of the disguise and how to wear a mimic grimace, as if she could be vitlumachen like a hungrily person. At the seventeenth century, the women of the great world of Western Europe victorious for their own purposes, those masks on sticks were waving.
Masochist and sadist.

In rich ways, masquerading can be used as a tool for psychological tortur. Take the butt of Enni, Ralph's squad, which is the eldest for his squad, I can improve the light and even better understand the situation, that Enni is not equal to you in intellectual and social respect. However, in a paradoxical rank, Ralph fell in love with Enni and virishiv that she was the best fit for a new squad. Tse didn't bother you to figure out your load with Enni, a load with superbly foldable rules.

If Ralph turns home after a working day, life in the house follows the ritual once and for all. Ralph comes to the house about the house, sighs, reads the evening newspaper until six thirty. At this moment, Enni can call Yogo for the supper. Yenny it is necessary to prepare a supper exactly on the sixth year of thirty days: not a good thing earlier, not a good thing later. Enni sit at the table and stalking for the guise of a man. Ralph knows what she's looking out for. Vaughn knows that you have a deep respect for your disguise. But none of them know anyone.

Ralph doesn't let Enni know what it is like to be a hedgehog. In the meantime, Enni has already written a whole dramatic plot, which is quite an appendage for a mile opera. Her guts are scratching in her soul: but Ralph doesn’t deserve a hedgehog with a rap? And here you stink the whole evening to spend at the same place in Moscow.

Enni is unsung, squinting looking at the impartial disguise of Ralph. Chi zumila won't prepare the supper properly? Chi vdala їy podlivka? Vaughn followed the recipe exactly, but added her spices. And how did she get mercy? So, it’s possible that it happened so! Vaughn looks like her heart is shaving, and her whole body is strained in the face of praise. No, Ralph was not worthy of a hedgehog. Yes, Yogo's lip twisted in an unimportant smile.

Ralph, playing his plot of a miles opera, is seen as a plate, for a long time to marvel at Enni with impenetrable guise, while she is experiencing death torments, and, nareshti, yoga guise properly rozplivaetsya in laughter of praise. And unbelievably, miraculously, Enni's whole soul begins to sleep in happiness. Life is a miracle! Ralph - її kohannya! Vaughn more, more, more happy! Vaughn turns to her own, as now to bring satisfaction, and greedily rots.

Relatively with his mask and synchronizing his skin, Ralph zoomed in on his cake and took his satisfaction. Until such very receptions of wines one goes and at night, resting in a bed with Enni. I don’t give my mind to the daily pressure of the wine, to make love to the wine with Ennі chi nі. Jenny is again guilty of going through painful doubts: “To touch the wines before me? Chi love wine me chi ni? How am I guilty, how am I guilty?

If, nareshti, Ralph hangs around, Enni sees a rush of ecstasy. It is not for us to give food about those who are Ennis a victim and a sleeper in this country. Here we would like to talk more about the food about how the mask for tortours is made. The sadistic-masochistic visions of Enni and Ralph miraculously bring them both satisfaction.

Prote vygodi in the face of masks sound more obvious for wearing masks.
Like throw off the mask.

Really, or else, you can see the wearing of a mask, terrify us with great carelessness, act in front of her. In addition, for the help of masks, we make people feel blue, in which the stench is not clogged. We are afraid to show up as rebels without our masks. And at the same time, wearing masks can relieve us of wear, as if we wanted mothers. Chi not vtrachaemo mi stіlki f, skіlki і nabuvaєmo zavdyaki masks?

Take, for example, Claudia. Vaughn is a sociable woman, who has recently exceeded thirty thin nature. Zavdyaki that she works at the great financial office, Claudia constantly cooperates with a lot of people during the day, and often ask for a bachelorette. However, she is deprived of independence, even though she didn’t want to know, until she was borrowed.

Klodiya is stverzhuє, schou has no fault. Vaughn is a prejudiced girl, and marvels with awe at the prospect of a fruitless life of the old girl. Why doesn't he want to get people emotionally and sexually? Claudia doesn't know why. You must know the people who went to care for her.

“Vona gives you advice,” one of them said. “Damn it, I like Claudia.” On the robot, she’s a miracle, and I pishov і from her once a day. However, as soon as it starts to get nasty, it freezes, and її apparently understood: “Don’t chip me! It’s not for me!“ - Who cares about all this traction?

Right, to whom? Who can look behind the grim facade of Claudia, a stick and an addicted woman? Afraid of being ostracized, Claudia hastened to speak about the witches to the very beginning of serious podias. In such a rank, it is unique that the wound was given to him. They didn’t in any way encourage them, because the first thing to do is to encourage others.

Silly? It is possible, but the most effective way is not to be slandered, so you care what is more terrible, what can happen to you. For Claudia on the right, it's the same. To that, instead of that, schob rizikuvati, you will spend your life, which was lost on self.

The disguise of Klodiya is uncommon and bring їy rich shkodi, but also use the necessary masks, the wearing of which is punished by communal norms. Lyudina, as if masking her guise in accordance with these rules, perhaps, as a matter of fact, you should go as far as your body. Prote sound zaboronaє tse zrobiti.

Like a butt, I’ll tell you about the seventeenth maiden, like I came to my squad, to tell me about my problems.

“Today I turn around on the bus with one boy. I don't know yoga. Vіn go to my prongs. Meni wine is appropriate. I'm guessing that I'm like youma. I would like to get to know him, but I don’t know how to tell.”

Walking out of your life, my squad urged the girls on the next trip on the bus and take the handless, important collars and stumble and pick up the collars along the brukivtsi, just like they get out of the bus.

To my surprise, I did this trick. So, only two passengers got off on this ridge, then the only gentleman, who, in exact compliance with the norms of etiquette, rushed to help the lady, who she drank in the bin, being a young man, who was worthy of. Vіn dopomіg pick up bags and could throw off the masks. Until that moment, if you got home, the stench of the flooring was already known, that the girl could ask for Coca-Cola in the booth. I on the right went well.

Later, it will take an hour to throw off the mask, as if you want to grow and develop, as if you want to be full-fledged with other people. The big problem lies in the fact that, having carried the mask of all life, it is not so easy to throw it off.

You can throw off another mask by pulling on another mask. Lyudina, as if dressed in a clown's outfit for an amateur performance, often appears in front of fences and streaming cobs. Whose suits can be hot, foolish and empty with full brilliance.

However, in every case, we can rightly s under the masquerading, the creation of the podvynyh defense lines, which are allowed to throw off the mask. Paradoxically, at the same time, with the constant need to trim our body under control, it’s really fun to move the entire world: who are we; what do we say, take off the mask, so that you can allow yourself to talk freely with other people.

May 10 years of my life, starting from 22 years, I was unfortunate, as if a person were unfortunate, I was spared the right to be myself.


Everything was normal with the rocky navchannya: I was sensible, I made the sing-song “fives” and, like a girl-witness, didn’t call out the daily suspicions to anyone.

Vidminnitsa at school is the norm, but after that I entered a foreign language, de 1 lad per 100 girls, and not a physical or mathematical faculty, a girl-student sgіdno with stereotypes can’t be sensible for boys.

Everything that was active in me was innocent linguistics of women and high school girls' favours. As soon as a boy learns clearly, he is taught to be reasonable. Like a girl vchismo, її vvazhayut assiduous, diligently that diligent.

I didn’t want the word “zovsim” in me, wanting to be vidpovіdalnosti, diligence and perseverance in me. I didn’t crammed anything at all, but I worked at home during the break, as if I had gone right after the lesson, on which they were put. Goofy spogad about myself at school - I stand at the break in front of the office and now I'm scribbling in zoshit chekayuchi, if they start us up to class.

Not in spite of the increased vigilance, I rushed to write “homework”, to write not vyyshovshi for between schools, but in order to get better at it, to come home absolutely freely in the form of lessons, head, fall on the sofa and read. Well, otherwise gravitate towards choreography, after that - again - fall on the sofa and read, and not sort out the words behind the warehouse, seeing in them a root, a prefix, a suffix and, perhaps, ending with an olive, and not with a pen. With a pen, draw an arc, a square, a broken letter V and two summіzhnі sides of a rectangle, for some reason it was not possible.

It’s impossible for you to write in zoshiti in a filthy handwriting and cross it. For the correction, the marks were lowered. Don't get carried away, don't take too much on yourself. Write a backhand in a scribbled way, rewrite it, and then rewrite it neatly in a zoshit.

So schzzz! I didn’t write anything in black, and my readers forgave me my unrecognizable handwriting and put on the cross, which they didn’t forgive anyone else. In the guts of a chuli: don’t piss me off better, because I’m like a company on my well-read head, fly their blows of authority in tartarari.

At the university, on the Nevdakh-vikladachivs, I marveled like shit. All reasonable girls, having finished their language, called to London, States or Moscow. At the department, they were filled with zavi zabiti, they felt themselves more or less sung by the walls of the Alma Mater and lived grimly through scientific publications from mental education.

Yakbi tsі publications are small commendations to science, I would put myself up to lectures with honor, but I could draw up at the sight of dissertations the retelling of other people's thoughts, vodkrittiv, doslіdzhen mali on the other hand, take additions to the rate and place in the examination committee. And they didn’t bring, obviously, nothing new to the people.

Vtіm, the cathedral cocks didn’t chіpal less, didn’t cackle, didn’t take it in tax, didn’t underestimate the marks, didn’t spread rot for the mind. In the past, being secluded, the stinks could not see it in others, but in a different way, it was written on my forehead that I do not pretend to a place in the department, and then, not for them a potential competitor in persecution for years that allowances.

In short, until 22 years old I was sensible and didn’t take anything. There was no need. And at 22 I came to the factory and there I saw the sky in diamonds.

Together with me, lads ruled at the viddil - just like I was zeros without work. They gave them a higher salary for their umochians, and not for those that I graduated from a state university, knew two foreign languages, and their diplomas were seen by local offices. Such injustice was explained simply: I am a woman.

At the factory, there was an unspoken policy: on the right of a man - yearn for family, on the right of a woman - to become a foreigner.

The women were paid less, and in some cases they were rarely given stones to plant. Few of us could slip through the car'er gatherings more than the head of a lousy officer. In my memory, there were only three such women: one was the retinue of the director of the plant, a friend was sent to the beast from Moscow, the third was a golovbuh - a settlement of a day of women and a vessel.

Being sensible, I promptly asked: at the middle, why call me Olenka, you better not understand, but the little ones work their right, bringing themselves closer to the set goal - a five-year-old zvinok, as if saying about the end of the working day.

Potim bula іnsha robot, already in Moscow, de tezh bulо vigіdno zdavati primіtivnіshim, nizh i є. Think less, imitate diyalnist, don’t linger and ride at the drill, smut, less mind.

Do you think great companies help great minds? Not. Possibly, if and here and there people were intellectuals, but, after drinking from the management system, the stench began to manage. And the management, as it is not vaguely recognizable, may not have a mind, but a novice. A sensible boss is not safe, a sensible boss is powerful. Therefore, the system does not need any new ideas for free, but it needs a new language, for which there is a lot of thoughts. She piled up stamps in front of the Rada of directors and all are happy. The money is dripping.

Nabridlo. I sat down to write, about what I dreamed about. Started a blog. Slim, smart. Usim - don't care. Two sensible people, for what reason, literally repeated the classic:
Olena, it’s possible, it’s not bad, but it’s already reasonable. The people are not sensible. Spread your shoulders, direct the audience - be quiet, who is with you on the same wind, quiet, who is incomprehensible, reading to you between rows.

She brought Malvina Olegivna - shocking, his instincts, near, but with the grip of a bitch. Blog pishov with a bang. Virus in those who read at once. Books were written in a flurry, they knew their reader. I began to write quietly what I think - seriously, comprehended, about illness and respect. I check, if I start the axis of less understanding between rows.

I don’t skarzhusya for a share, I don’t give up respect for vipadi worthless, like they brought their own woman in order to kill me at the mouth, and respect that the woman is not good enough for more, less sex and wine. What do you think, that the suspense is so powerful, well, don’t fight rightly with mlins, trying to bring that you are not a camel. But I’m happy for them, because now I don’t need to wear someone else’s mask for myself, after it, the right camp will be right with my mind, with some feelings of that experience.

Few of us can be happy with life, not hovayuchis under the burqa. Mustaches of deposits as a person and boss, as a susidiv of girlfriends. Well, it’s true - why don’t you talk to my friends about your thoughts, then what will happen to them? Pokhovayutsya pіd stіl, zlyakayutsya. Tell them, they told Olena, turn the bitch back to us. It's great that I solved this problem, having asked the wrong people, you can't understand me, and you know it's quiet, you can talk about it.

Believe me, nіyakі nіshtyaki not varіt of what you have to know your essence. Tse zavzhd vtracheny hour, about what, pevna, be-like a person before death, we regret it. Feel me, believe me, as if you knew what you are afraid to think about.

I've spent ten years for me to be accepted by suspense, I'm not ready, in principle, to accept sensible women, as, before that, they are young. No, we don’t call dikunis: we marvel at reasonable pensioners, we’re surprised, at reasonable indulgences - tezh. And the axis is reasonable, young and pretty - it’s too much, too much, so don’t buy it, but as if it’s rich, then obov’yazkovo “got wet”, “to write literary blacks for it” and “we don’t understand, it means, won - - stupid.

That went out in the hollow of such a suspense. As if mit me, I came up with a new bend and ask myself. I spat on the new one and began to brag the way I wanted to, without catching anything. Chi not ready out, chi bachite? Well, fuck him! I choose to be behind him, by myself, by someone else, or else, as if I am another person.

Only the one who has the right to be yourself and knows the right, you can see the sensual phrase: “Happy - be yourself.” That's right, believe me. Don't trust me, pigs, but just turn it around. The truest of all possible happiness is life without a mask.

Well, to lighten up the seriousness of those, tell me about your masks, please.

 


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