In the rest of the hour, I often make sure to finish it, so that the squad earns more per person. Moreover, people from these families will begin to make speeches in different ways: some try to change the situation, while others adapt. They take on domestic turboti, changing their roles from the retinue, or they start banally kicking on the sofa, so that it would be easier to spit in the bed.

As if marveling at the eyes of all the eyes of the middle woman, then everything is summarily done. How so it seemed that її reached the rapt began to seriously overwhelm him. It doesn’t matter who won: the actor is highly paid, the artist, the model is the banal director of PivnichPivdenSkhidZakhidPromBank, even early chi pizno її povaga until the new poshne tanuti on the eyes. Moreover, it’s easy to fit in on the edge, because everything is on equal footing and instincts: it’s okay if a female wants to grow her offspring in order with a superior male. Women are the essence of emotions, they think not with their heads, but often with their own instincts, like a zeal to the minds that have formed, obitsiat basically nothing more than disappointment and disrespect to the other half. Aje, it’s important for you to feel stolen, and not beaten, isn’t it? A drop in self-esteem, complexes, a decrease in sexual activity due to aphids, apparently in the hands of handicap — all the same, instinctively threatening people in such vents. Do we need it?

But, I repeat, this is an average statistical look at such a situation. Until the speech, I swear by it, such vodnosinah could not be beaten. I'm old-fashioned, I respectfully feel like the most classic dobuvach. As I have already said, I am comfortable following the principle of “mother garna, tato practice”, I respect this model as a single truth. The vicious situation has begun to zachipala self-esteem and a person, respecting healthy mutuals in the middle of the bet. If you want, perhaps, everything can be explained trivially, to me, that the lower and female girls are like me, the priorities are those of the same family values, and not the salary that is passed through the careers, on which you can spend the whole family.

Ale, my thought is just my thought, but the proof will show those that are possible and other options for the development of the situation. Є people, it is absolutely unimportant whose salary is higher. They just take and change the shoes around the house, I will... They will bring the main income to their family, they will be happy to take care of the booth and the children, and everyone will feel like they will need that kohanimi. If a man does not earn the status of “home-owner”, and if a woman is in the same state, they know the balance of a fair exchange. Why b i n i? It’s true, it’s necessary to make sure that the scheme is less likely to be practiced, that the squad is really enjoying their work, and the person is really not against wearing shoes around the house, and not to rob the one who is “required”. For a woman, it’s important to understand and remember that a person is guilty of feeling like a person, to wind up like a wine, having recognized the traditional women’s shoes on themselves. Give him the opportunity to show initiative, take a decision, give him a field for self-realization. Standing up to a new level to the head of this, even if you can respect a person, you can and it’s not enough for just one income. At the same time, one cannot bear the tone and manner of arguing with the boss-supporter. Tse on the robot you are the boss of the master, at home - you are the squad of your man. Let the new one take care of the illusion of supremacy.

And yet I became a witness of the situation, a de man, who stumbled in such minds, not thinking about being able to overcome himself and joining the fight with his retinue. For a new high income of a yoga woman - a kind of viklik, excitement. And here one single meta comes to the fore - to bring it to everyone, so that it’s rich in building, that it’s a good man, and not like a squiggly housekeeper there. And everything to bring to zayvogo workaholism and, as a last thing, let the blues. To that already no one from friends gives respect to stosunki. Aja more headly - save the warmth of the stosunki and the calm at home for any furnishing. With a wise approach, there is no meaning, who will become a prosperous one, and who will be a keeper. Adzhe befriended, you just wanted to be happy.

Summarizing: the situation in the skin specific sim is individual. Її the result is to lie down in the form of rich officials, ale, my glance, let's think, in view of the psychotype of the special skin z friends. I would like to give one universal glad, which is the best way to approach today's topics: grand women, as you see that the vinyl has tension in the wines, don't try to get a rose first. Don't check if the person is going to talk himself. We, for our nature, in the greater vipadkіv vlastovanі so that we want to save the blue, we can keep it to the rest. And if after a long time ago, a rapt break through, that claim to your address will ring like a hail - better for everything, it will be better ...

Narazi are more and more often chatting with them, de squad is the main gainer. First offences, work, but the squad earns more money per person. And such a situation can dominate the offending parties. The druzhina in the person of a person can be a caretaker around the house, a caregiver for children, a miraculous kohanets. Here, it’s not smut to boost your self-esteem with statements on kshtalt: “I’m spinning here alone, but you don’t do anything.”

Deyaki people build a happy mother squad, so they earn more. I don’t want to change anything, I’m all in power. Abi didn’t eat them and didn’t overlook their deeds. As soon as the squad takes such a position of a person, then this person can be completely harmonious, and do not threaten family happiness.

Zagalom, as a woman lives with a man, which is lower for her status, earns less and else, she needs to accept it as a gift. It is necessary to know who has the pluses and live in peace. Dorіkati cholovіka, sip yogo stupidly. So come on in, you can’t lead to anything, the stench is unsafe: for the sake of self-denying a person, you can start walking left-handed.

VIDGUKI BUVALIKH. TO THE INTERNET
(All the realities that allow the recognition of characters will be changed again)

Sometimes with fate, a woman accumulates hot water through those who have all the material support for this to lie on her shoulders. It is important for you to bear this vantage alone. Listen to what the women themselves say:

“My man doesn’t work any more than fate, and, moreover, he doesn’t really joke about the work. Through this I can see the innocence. I'm afraid of zavagіtnіti - if I'm going on maternity leave, there won't be anyone to earn a penny.
I’m guessing that masculinity is to make a turbo, a supporter, a defender. And in my family - I myself am a turbota, a supporter, and a defender (financial). To the right, not in what I would like, so that they would exalt me. There is nothing good for anyone else - be already familiar with the fallow, ask for a leather copy. Ideally - if the friends earn approximately equally. And right now I don’t know what to work for me ... "

“I earn 2.5 times more per person. Vіn pratsyuє dvіrnikom, i don't want anything better. And on the right, it’s not about the fact that I can’t illumine more that I know. Vіn is just ledar, and yogo everything is sovereign. Do not warp Yogo, that the squad is more profitable for the new one, and pull Yogo on your own. I knew you a good job, de vin will take a par with me. Ale there needs to shout early until evening, and youmu molt. Then you are a classy kokhanets, help around the house, wonderful dad. I love yoga...
One problem: I want to be weak, so that a person would tell me: “Darling, don’t worry about anything, I’ll do everything myself. And if you want to practice so much, then spend your salary on lipstick, perfume. Mrii mrii ... ".

“I am a worker from the middle of Lanka, and I have become a foreigner for a person, as if I were a little lower for status and a little more modest material ability. And now I don’t know what to work. Vіn is a good person, and, krіm svoєї work, scho to bring a penny, taking on himself at home. Ale іnodi me nіdvіduє pochtya innocence. Especially when planning a child. And if so, then I’ll have another hour to sit at home, dedicate a child to myself. And the man, I'm afraid, is simply not in a position to win over a highly paid robot ... ".

“I earn more per person. And not to the one who doesn’t get us a penny, but to the one that I am a workaholic. If I park on the robot, I sleep for three years on the bounty - but it’s not enough for me. Navit if I was on maternity leave, I still worked.
Dorikati cholovіka penny I respect in a filthy tone. If we got into trouble, I worked at the police for a penny, disappearing for days on the job. Get out, I knew what I was going for.
Although sometimes I can’t speak, I show everything that has boiled up. Not long ago, an uncle-budіvelnik came to us, rozrahuvav koshtoris for repairs. Viyshla worthy sum, otzhe, treba take a loan. Cholovik started protesting - mi shoyno took a new car on credit. I'm going to finish you off sharply: pay me, then, pay me less. Having formed. And here the plaster is already hoarse. Ale vibachatisya all the same I will not. I know - for the strong character of me I love ... "

“Sometimes they fight less, that a person is not able to pamper me, make a good present. A bunch of mimozi will not please me ... I am confused, because I do not see myself as financially stolen and have to pay more for my own strength. Natomist man, taking on the main responsibility for the house. And from the other side, it’s such a buzz - you don’t call before him for stained pennies, order with wet cats for your judgment. I was so swindled by children that I can be self-sufficient and build only on myself. It’s easier for me to bear the thought that my family can earn more money, and if you take on your own turbos. To whom!"

And how are you putting yourself up to?

Do you remember how you got Gosh (vin Georgiy Ivanovich) in the film “Moscow Can’t Believe in Tears”, if you know that a woman borrows a temple and earns more money from a kilka? Knocking the door and pishov at a deep zapіy, otrimav otrimav deep psychological trauma. Father, in the order of the day food: scho robiti, how does a person earn less for a squad?

We immediately exchange: classical ledars, yak, lying on the sofa, we don’t get caught by them, on which we can take our family, not so rich - only 9%. І їх mi at once to respect is not taken.

Zagal, according to the experience of sociologists, 68% of people, as if they were in a similar situation, it seems that there is nothing terrible in the fact that the squad earns more. Movlyav, bring pennies to the family to the one who had the best time to go out and who had more luck. In fact, there is less visibility of calmness. I in family, de wellness - women, often blame different problems.

One of the main causes of conflicts is centuries-old traditions, for which people can be the head of their family and take care of household members. For an hour, it’s hard for women to say to their companions that they’re incompetent. The axis of the stench and begin to make claims: You are not a man, you live for the rahunok of the squad! Zvіdsi postіyni scandals.

In his work, a person does not earn enough, even though he doesn’t show it to you, in the face of his failures, internally, he is constantly restless. According to statistics, 78% of people who do not work or earn little, suffer from depression. Nevpevnenist in yourself, whether you can beat someone out of the amount. First of all, on the basis of equal parity, whether the will is paralyzed to the point of victory, that hope is to be changed. I will start scandals again.

So that the situation did not flare up at her, it is necessary to choose the correct tactics of behavior.

• Don't see people on the widow of pennies from the damp gamants. Let the bones be saved from the inaccessible place. And don’t call the full star, kudi win їх vitrative (we don’t have “beer” and lovers of gambling on the street: for such types of pennies, you need to trim yaknaydali).
• Don't talk for days about finance, but keep on raising your voice and being wholesome.
• Do not saw a person and do not point the butt of such a sleepy acquaintance, who has made a good career and occupies a solid penny.
• At home, repair your self-reliance, let a close person make a turbo about you.
• Let a man help out with the government, but don't take any straight binding. Praise obov'yazkovo, sing along. Ale and a housewife for a person’s work is not a varto, otherwise you can see for an hour that you are becoming a stone wall for a person.
• To be happy with the person at the working right, often talk about those who are important to you yoga support.
• As your man should become a greater possible person, help him with whom. We are in front of a wide faith in yoga success. Sometimes such things appear as a whole sufficient for a career zloty.

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It so happened that the women themselves today are more and more often the main anniversary of their family. Such a trend is to keep the good in the great places, which made it clear: the megacities have a lot of opportunities for the beautiful half of the day. Take - I do not want! Well, as for the people, you yourself know, you can’t do it in a bad way - there is a shortage of good ones. That is why women are more and more often vvazhayut for better rozrakhovuvat only on themselves.

On the right, in the fact that the form of family members, if the squad earns more per person, there is no historical root. We call a new trend. It is psychologically difficult for people to adapt to the new realities of life. For the ruler of the house, start the one who is good for this. Logic realized: if you don’t like this, then which one of you is the master? But if not the master, then who? And here psychologists are ahead of, scho, sound, in their families, women earn much more, people take on the role of a son. Judge for yourself, if the squad is good, then why are they arguing like a mother? Psychologically, a person starts to take his squad like a matir. And s matir'yu hіba can be sexy girls?

Therefore, in family, where a woman earns more, sexual discord often sets in. A man is sexually cool to a woman, and a woman, navpaki, as if she needs love, support and caress. Zvіdsi welding, image, unreasonable. Virishiti is not so easy task.

Psychologists zapevnyayut, scho, behind the statistics, cholov_ki successful squads do not make a high income. And after 35 roki vzagali lower their hands. When it comes to cіkavo, no matter what the woman takes on the role of a year-old, on him, like before, they are left with household chores. Not all people can reconcile with the fact that the squad is successful, the rich representatives of strong status develop complexes on the same soil, throw those hairpins at the address of the squad. What work?

• DO NOT focus on what you earn more!
• Open the fireworks, where you put away your pennies, not picking out who and how much you brought in this month. Tse SHARED PENIES!
• Plan great purchases TOGETHER! Well, the fact that the new refrigerator and the car did not come as a surprise to him.
• Most often praise the person. Do not let yoga complexes spread!
• Deyakі psychologists vzagalі to please the women not to open the sum of their income before the person. Ale, wait, buying a designer bag with a crocodile skin is not so easy to grab. Buvay, that a person, well, can’t put up with his incompetence, start to assert himself for the help of humiliation of his squad and march in cash. For the first person, you can turn to a psychologist for a job, for another, you need a psychologist.

Well, now your questions:

Olga, 29 rokiv, St. Petersburg

It so happened that after the fact that both of us took a loan for an apartment, we spent it on a job. We worked in the same company. Know how not to go out of such a salary. With the help of our monthly income, we get only those who need to make a payment for a loan. Don't lose sight of the products. We live at Borg. And the whole borg is growing. I'm on my nerves. I began to have hair. Vіdnosini іz cholovіkom zіpsuvalis. I don't know how buti. I didn’t think that it was so important for me to endure financial difficulties. I'm literally shaking. I called until the song of life, but now I can’t allow myself to go for a manicure. I can't afford to do anything. Help with joy. How to survive?

- Olga, your camp of intelligence. As a rule, in situations of financial difficulties it is easy to marvel at the camp of the right from different sides. That's why I preach to you to go beyond the framework of a stark look at the situation and to mumble, as it is possible to work in these environments, to pay the loan. For whom you can use the following method: take a great arch paper paper, for example, whatman paper, in the center paint or write a problem - payment of a loan for an apartment, in the center, write arrows and write the best solution. Dream up, write as the simplest options, so and the most generous allowance, for example: sell an apartment for 20% more expensive for the market price, know a highly paid job in a different place, for example, near Moscow for a living, pay off a loan for three years and so on. The task is to know more ways to get out of the situation. It is possible to five distances and sort of otrimanih options again paint the arrows to the ways of realizing what was conceived.

Ask the person to rob you yourself, then compare and marvel at what happened, launch an additional brainstorming. Such a method allows you to expand the scope of your understanding, understanding, and your ability to be the most optimal for you, and to begin to improve your nutrition.

Masha, 27 years, Yekaterinburg

Good day! At the moment, I am resting at the maternity leave. I'll take care of the person. Alemeni should be promptly asked for pennies. For food, utility bills, consume children too little. Vіn can just transfer me the same amount to the card. For a new one, a problem. I won’t deprive you of the worthy ruble until I tell you about it. Shchiro kazhuchi, for me it is condescending. I cried and tried to calmly speak to him. Like peas on the wall! Honestly word. I'm thinking about separation. There is no more strength to fight such greed. Yak buti?

- Good afternoon, Olgo! We owe you for those who shared your situation. If I understand correctly, you see the great image, even to the point of thinking about separation through those that a person doesn’t give you a penny without your frontal prohannya, prote wine, behind your words, all the same, I’ll take care of your needs and family needs. So the problem, in fact, lies only in the fact that you need to ask for the transfer of pennies, the pennies themselves don’t convince you, you don’t reject, right? When you have access to pennies, you will be judged like an image, you know that you can’t be understood, and I’m going to make you see. Think about how correctly I have designated the logical language of your thoughts and feelings.

I can reveal those who at the same time you are in a separated way out of the situation. So, you may not be able to assign us a problem: you do not happen to ask. But think about the upcoming meals, try to respond to them as rationally, abstractly as possible in the form of emotions. How many traumatic can be separation for you, your children at the same time? How will you be able to take care of your family on the same eve as your person? What is more important to you: it’s better, safer for yourself, for the sake of goodness, like, behind your words, it’s been infringed by prohanny. There are no right or wrong opinions on food, just your thoughts.

And, obviously, I would like to add that partners often spend their money on the family budget in front of the wedding or at the beginning stages of a sleeping life. And it’s completely normal, that sometimes you have to move at the link with the situation, which has changed, for example, for the children of the people. Do not be afraid to tell the squad about your fight, lack of hand, propagate your own version of the solution of the problem, see the dialogue, bilateral discussion. Insanely, mature people can accept the thought of another person and at once come up with a mutually viable, mutually beneficial solution. Good luck to you!

- See your wages as a sum for your spend, for which you don’t call anyone, and make such purchases from her. However, as if everything was fine with the brethren, a person calmly reacts to the be-like women's troubles. To that varto honestly vodpovisti sobi on a low power supply. Think about what to stand behind the troubles of a person? How do you take your income: how is your authority, how do you get your income? It’s like a big penny, that’s a kind of contribution of wine to rob your family life (for example, a squad earns, and a person to follow for the sake of those children). Yak bi vin hotiv, schob you stained them? Who will take the decision to give a penny and spend money on your family? What starts yoga: the very fact of the purchase; vitrata great sumi; those who take decisions; those who cannot blame you with new clothes; those who earn less than yours?

Or maybe, you secretly write to them, what success you have achieved, and internally set yourself more for a person? Todi yogo anger calls out to me not a black bag ... I’m given the best solution to see my own “gut pennies” and stain them for the ruling court, and then we’ll get a penny in exchange for a person.

The article describes those problems, which are found in family members, de squads are the main gainer. Recommendations of psychologists should be made on how to improve the moral climate in the family.

In our days, a situation has developed in the suspense, which is radically shaken up in the dark, as if it was a stretch of the century. In rich spheres of life, women have significantly stifled men. The stench began to earn good money, and among the deaky families they became the main cultivators. Well, the people leaned on another plane, which gave birth to a low psychological problems.

Having occupied a leading position in this position, the woman drank at the end of the camp. Adzhe vona called vin tyagar tієї vіdpovіdalnosti, as before it was the prerogative of a person. With whom, purely women, the bindings around the house were so lost on them. Also noted is the cicada trend. The more the squad earns, the less people show enthusiasm in the pursuits of a highly paid job. Everything is marked on the family stosunka not by the best rank.

Most people, who earn less for their squads, have lower self-esteem. At that very hour, the stench is psychologically ready to recognize its material impossibility. All the same, I impose a singing beat in the manner of the behavior of a strong stat. A person begins to be in charge of himself with a prosperous squad. Different complexes are blamed on him, which negatively spills into the booth on normal feet.

The druzhina are dependent on the situation. The role of the year-old is not laid down in her genes, but due to the circumstances, she is brought to vikonuvati. With whom women from 35 years of age and the elders of the zdebіlshy get on the trival vykonannya not powerful obov'yazkіv. As for the young squads, then they stink, as if they were taking on the role of the main beneficiary, then they don’t choose to join too long.

Breaking family stereotypes are given as signs in the intimate sphere. A person, sensing his incompetence, begins to succumb to sexual contacts. Zhіntsi, navpaki, nebhіdne regular state of life, schob vіdchuvati themselves bazhanim i privablivim. At that very hour, daily psychological problems with a person are blamed in it. As soon as the team is cherished by financial nourishment in family, they begin to look at themselves not as a kohana, but as a matir. And can you be perfectly intimate with a child?

What is the reason for psychologists to think?

We stink to please the women, they earn much more for their people, and for some conditions do not support their own advances. Earn more - that and miraculous. Alya doesn’t need a day to guess about it, but there are more people to think about. Such behavior calls for a negative reaction and makes the problem worse.

In order to save the development of complexes in a person, it is necessary not to remember that it is necessary to reinforce this importance in family life. Next praise for the good things done at home, do it for the good hands, I will help that support. But even as the complexes develop, and the person becomes rude and non-corrosive, then the only option is to open the nose. Otherwise, life will change into hell.

To make judgments more focused on your earnings, put your family income in one bedroom. Let it be like a box or an envelope. Slid to discuss with the person mustered, as well as great purchases. Buying it is significant, it is necessary to look forward to the formal head of the booth. In a different way, it evokes the image, razdratuvannya and negatively signify on the sleeping atmosphere in the family.

You don’t need to bring in the right amount of your income, so that the girls are more trustworthy. No trace of embossing on a person, ringing yoga in the night, lack of initiative, worthlessness. Tse prizvede less to welds and scandals.

In any case, the woman is guilty of virishuvati herself, which way it is necessary to choose. Deyakikh good zaroblyayut squads of the state situation that has developed. Especially when a person is encouraged to stream emotions, they do not get hung up on the high penny incomes of their weaker half.

It is necessary to understand that the given form of family vіdnosin does not have a single historical root. Vaughn is brand new. That is why it is necessary with your own hands to mold that style of life, which has won a rich squad, and a poor person. If a person does not want to stick to the new realities of today, then one and the most reasonable - separation. So it will be shorter for both. Do not be afraid of separation, as if the stosunki went into a deaf hut and did not bring any spiritual comfort, or mental jealousy.