And another question "What do men write in the first message?", Because women, they say, are spoiled by attention, they require originality, and on a simple "hello" do not respond.

I can answer for myself and for two friends.
Masha is sitting on a tabor. Replies almost to all. By mood sometimes does not respond. I told how one day a man wrote her (sorry, now there are mats, but I will not throw out words from the song): "Do you want to look up?" Original Yes? Masha, of course, not so, and answered: "A man, well, why so rude? You can write differently. " She wrote a lot of things, but the essence was so. It was very touched, apparently, before that, everything was sent. The correspondence has faced, as a result of which he issued: "Masha, you are ... such ... you are not like that ... What are you doing on this site? You do not have a place here! " In a good sense, of course. But they did not meet, because he lives in another city.

Vika sits on 24open and mamba. Replies to everyone. Well, really. Once he even corresponded with a man who was looking for Mrs, although herself is not from this topic, and not at all. From him, a letter was such a long, where he expressed that Mrs. could do with him, as he would serve her, etc. Apparently, everything was sent to a copy, why I just don't know, because there are specialness, where the likelihood of finding consonants at times above. Anyway. Vika responded to him, as a result, they moved to a friendly chatter. She then told me that all this, exclamation: "Well, the normal thing turned out to be!"

Well, about me. Since I do not have a photo in the questionnaire, I write mostly men, too, without a photo. I answer almost everyone, by mood. That's even specially climbed on Mamba and passed the first four pages who wrote what I wrote and what I answered. Or who did not answer.

Of the 30 people two wrote just "Hi!", Two more "let's talk?" And "I will be glad to communicate", 7 people "get acquainted?"

Hello. Married. Is there any interest?
Good evening! Conditions for the meeting?
Good afternoon! Tea coffee?
Hello. You would even indicate the growth and weight in the questionnaire, the man is important. Fantasies are good, bright. Write, if I'm in your taste, and you are not complete.
Good evening! Chistopoten is ensured, it looks good. If relevant, let's climb something.
I want you.
Hello, I would look at you.
Hi, sun! How are you feeling?
Mmm ... what she loves! Good evening, beautiful stranger!
Good time day! Let's get acquainted. I think I will not disappoint.
Hey! How is such a beauty yet not under guard? (This is in my questionnaire photo temporarily stood)

And briefly about yourself:
Hello, looking for meetings without commitment, I live in civil marriage, write, if you like.
Hey! Let's get acquainted, Nikita is called me, I am 30 years old. 180-75. Looking for a married mistress.

But we are also interested not to the correspondence themselves, but their consequence, that is, what they led to. I do not know how many meetings went to Masha, but her novel with a married man twisted very quickly, so that she deleted the questionnaire. I have already written that he was going to leave the family, but relatives pressed him, especially the eldest son, and now he lives with his wife from a sense of duty. Masha ruined the relationship with him on his own initiative, even though she was hurt, and now again on the site.

Vika for six months met only with one man and she did not like it. She just once - work and small children.

I did not answer five out of 30, I met three, but I didn't go further. About all three wrote posts, one - this was liked, but nothing had nothing to do with him. With sluggishly corresponded about a month or two after the acquaintance, periodically he invited to visit him, and then unexpectedly wrote: "Do not write me more" without any explanation. Maybe he was tired of my dynamo. One more thing I think to meet. I did not like at all. All three dates were in May, then I generally scored on dating, tired.

All the well-known resources leave few people indifferent. Someone loves him, someone hates, but absolutely all periodically exhibit their questionnaires there.
Some are looking for a satellite of life, some - one-time adventure, individual aunts want to solve their housing and / or credit issues, some themselves do not know what they want.
But everything comes to Mamba.
I stayed on dating sites for 14 years, even when was married, I still went to my favorite resource. If a man is mambanized, then it is forever.

Not so few people do not like Mamba, considering her kind of garbage.
But in fact, these people simply could not achieve their goals.
Although everything is very simple on Mamba, there is a kind of algorithm, observing which, almost always you can achieve the desired result.
1. Really evaluate yourself. If you are an ordinary average man who wants a one-time ending, then it is necessary to clearly understand, fast and unaitable concern with a young girl model (or close to the model) appearance will never be. And no presented virtual roses will help.
Usually such men immediately begin a conversation about mercantility. But mercantility is not here. Just need to adequately evaluate yourself. No 20-year-old students will be suitable for rapidly, but 35-year-old divorced clerchs of the average appearance. And then the prelude in the form of a cafe is usually obligatory.
However, 35-year-old clerchs, with children, but without housing and wishing to find a rich man who will solve all their problems, it also concerns. Adequately evaluate yourself better for all.
2. Clearly formulate the task. If your goal is a one-time concern, report this to the alleged partners (or partners) in open text. So, I want to love. No need to ride in brains, and promise a serious relationship when there are no such purposes. Usually it turns sideways, and quickly.
Although, aunts, frankly reporting that they need a challenge lover, frankness helps very weakly. Just because the proposal is too long enough.
3. Do not dwell on failures. This primarily concerns men. One aunt will refuse, the second, thirty-second, thirty-third will agree. Well, not thirty-third, so ninety-fourth. By and large, all Mambotette (and Mambomuzhiki) are easily interchangeable.
4. Photos should be yours and must be made if not this year, then at least in the past. Do not try to seem younger than it really is. Yes, and it is hardly worth it in the photos. Jeepdotal photos "I and someone else's Mercedes" let them be better in jokes, and not in your questionnaire. Any working person is now able to buy almost any car, and throw it - a bad tone. About photos against the background of other people's cars will be better silent.
5. Do not be afraid to meet. Meeting on Mamba does not mean anything and does not oblige anything.
6. You should not have anything to you on Mamba. Men, again, it concerns first. No aunt must not be sexually adjusted, not for free, not free. Yes, and for paid meetings there are professionals. But, just too, anyone and nothing should you.
7. Do not try to be original. Yes, there are women and men who prefer to communicate virtual consuming machines. But, if you need real meetings, it is enough to be just yourself. I, with all my boring, met with moms times 500 minimum.
8. For men. There are no women who want a family on Mamba. How it would not sound strange. By my family, I do not understand the decision of the material and housing problems and the search for a call lover. The illusions that the Mamba is easy to create a family, it is better to discard immediately.
9. For women. Men who wanted to take credit, housing, still any of your problems, in exchange for sexual service on your side, there is no mamba. Adequate men perfectly understand that the fairies on all sides and better and cheaper.
And the most important point.
10. Still, do not look for one-time tricks. Sooner or later, it will still have to understand that finding sex in any quantity, losing much more. And losing yourself, no matter how pathetic it sounds. In fact, it is better to believe in the illusion that the family is sooner or later will still be, and the divorce is not a sentence. Just believe and hope, without leaving finally in cynicism.

Hello everyone, girls and boys). And other people accidentally or not accidentally embarked on my review and deciding to read it. By the way, I advise you to do it). I will pour my soul here, yes, tips distribute. Useful or not, to solve you.

Introduction .

And my story will be long. So sat down more convenient for the chair and read)

My first acquaintance with this site occurred 4 years ago. I was then a young and inexperienced all the joy of life. (It's funny, considering that I am now 23). Broke up with a young man, depression, at such moments, and I don't want to live. I grieved, burned, but I realized that it was not helpful to pick up and tears. Yes, and it is not serious at the very beginning of life, there is already a cross on yourself. And what is the first to do after parting? Of course, to distract and switches something else. Well, if trite. And so, by simple analysis, I came to the conclusion that I need to register on a dating site. Immediately make a reservation that the goal was "not to find the love of the whole life", but simply correspondence and communication, I did not think about meetings. Naive).

Registered. The photo was first not posted, I don't remember why. And even, despite this, after about 5 minutes, messages fell. At first, I tried to answer everyone, I looked through the questionnaires. The contingent wrote different. I patiently everyone answered all the same questions. The most adequate, in my opinion, gave the number. And on the phone again answered the same questions and took effect about the meeting. Personally, I, with my conservative view of the world, imagined the procedure for communicating and dating at all wrong. But what months of correspondence in anticipation of a date? And then day and immediately almost under the crown is called. But still I tried to get to the truth. How so, and most importantly why? In fact, everything is extremely simple. But in order to better understand the essence of the question, and who are these people sitting there?

I do not take to climb socionics and analyze something in full. My views are purely reflected only by my personal experience. Next, I present you my improvised classification.

Classification of Mambov characters.

1. Married. Such, I think you met more than once. Here are 2 options for the development of events. Or he honestly admits that he is not free and suggests some material bonuses as a compensation for this. (One offered to buy me clothes and asked if winter boots need me, and he would be kind, buy.) Or he mows under free and independent, and then his wife calls you and offers to go on a well-known route. The second option is more dangerous, well, only if you are not with such a group of men, and it does not bother you. I personally do not need it in any way and I have taken such ones on the first messages that I advise you.

2. Sponsors. Well, everything is clear from the name. Usually, in the introductory message immediately set out the purpose of acquaintance, promising for acts of love with them material and social bonuses. Do you need it?

3. Lovers of obscene offers. Bearded unidie and aunt, sitting at home in front of the computer and masturbating your answers. On the frank messages, they are unlikely to go. What is your hobby? And they have such suggestions. To each his own.

4. Couples. If you are a girl, then I think, more than once from these received a proposal for Mzhzh. A very cheap way to pair diversify your sex life. You only need patience and bottle of wine.

5. "The perfect man." They talk about such a lion tolstoy ... Further, I think you know. Therefore, you should not trust every oncoming transverse, men tear up their merits. So be prepared to learn that your Maxim, working as director of the Bank, in fact Fedor Promoter.

6. Unilaterally developed. Men who come to the site in order to find a partner for sex without special costs. Do not be surprised if you are on the first meeting instead of the café is your home drink tea or watch his big library. Divorce Star as the world, but in most cases acts. There are also turning on their work, study, sports etc. If they saw a voluntary listener in you, then take care.

7. Rapid. Yes, yes, and here they are. Never relax and be prepared for everything. A good example of the program "Screws in networks." Standing of course, but the share of common sense is. So do not get to invitations to participate in the photo shoot, go to rest or buy something.

8. Tikhoni. They are shocked by what they went to the meeting, so they chloride plaintively with their eyes, and wait until you behave somewhere.

9. Candid inadequate. Guys, a psychdispeance crying for you.

9. Regarding normal. Here, of course, the question is very subjective, for someone, maybe other categories were quite nothing.

10. Other. Those who have not met, or met not in large quantities.

So, if you go on a date, then be prepared that it will come not a cultural and intelligent young man, and someone from me above listed. Cheating, self-affirmation for your account, divorce for sex: This is an incomplete list of the goals of the inhabitants of Mamba. Therefore, if you are a dreamy, trusting and wounded by nature, then you will be hard there. I do not argue, there are always exceptions to the rules, but there are few of them. About one of them later).

For 4 years, the dates were not enough. I am not from the category "Eternal Online." During this time, it was removed, it was registered again. But clearly noticed one trend. Mamba has "constant inhabitants." But how many years they are sitting there - I do not know, maybe right since the creation of Mamba) how many times you are not registered, they will meet you on duty and offer to meet. Sometimes it comes to the absurd) I advise you to bypass these personalities.

And now for example, some of my funny and not very stories)

1. I got acquainted with a man, much older. The phone seems to be adequate, cultural, it turned out that there are many general moments. During the communication, I have never invited anywhere, it's expensive ... DR presented a cheap mixer and a tagged rose, and on the new year Christmas balls and some unnecessary home garbage. In each conversation, he was talking about how everything is becoming more expensive, that it is necessary to buy buckwheat and salt about the reserve, and then never. At the same time there were 3 apartments, and stable earnings many times higher than the average. As well as admitted that he is not needed serious relationship, but he would not be against sex without commitment. He is not against, but I need it?

2. Again the man older. The fact that in the photo and what came in real life sky and earth. Meter in jump, bald and belly. Well, it's not cultivatically running from a date, so I had to go to the cafe. An hour listened about what a significant person he is and what it is "Baba is running for him, and not the opposite." I did not order anything, I ordered juice and ice cream. Brought an account, paid for itself. Spretched off. Rings in an hour, says how I liked it, and that he is in love and hopes for the second date and that on the second date he will pay, if I come. And then you never know, I would have paid for 1st time and 300 p into empty.

3. A couple of people on the 1st date were offered to start meeting, well, what is it really?) One so at all after the meeting, I thought my boyfriend and called the claims and arranged hysterics. And this after the 1st meeting ...

Well, finally, some tips.

1. Do not write multivocent writings on the page: "What is he, my perfect man." In my opinion, it is enough to fill the main graphs. Do not flatter yourself) Well, for example, if you have a height of 1.50 in the jump, do not write 1.70 well, and so on in this style.

2. It is necessary to post photos made on camera ala 0.2 Mp, very spoils the impression, whatever there is no beauty. But the photo with a rigid and merciless photoshop is not an option. Otherwise, at the meeting, you will be destined to see the puzzled and disappointed eyes of your interlocutor. And maybe you will have such eyes)

3. I advise you not to spend time on inadequate people who are complete there. In the process of correspondence, choose several options with whom you can continue communication in a closer mode.

4. Every second will immediately call for a meeting and ask for a number, be prepared. Do not agree and go to her after a couple of messages. Although if you have a lot of free time and nerves, then ahead. Well, if not, I advise how much it is possible to learn your interlocutor better. Resect His Circle of Interests, what does it love, where it happens. For funny confidence, you can peelinate the VK page, if so is there, sometimes you can find out the entire history of life) should not immediately ask questions from the category: "How much do you earn and what a car you have." First, not culturally, secondly, it is hardly honest. Be prepared that real merits will be exaggerated many times. It is also not worth opening your cards, you should not open my minimum of personal information.

That's a fabulous end, and who listened to the well done.)

All successful dating.

P / S with his current young man met everything on the same wrapped Mamba. So there is still exceptions).

Mamba is one of the most popular dating sites in the Russian Internet segment and not only. The main tool for selecting a pair on it continues to be the search. What we will talk about in this article.

Features of work

If you have registration on Mamba, and the browser remembered the login and password, then the opportunity to find a suitable person to appear immediately. On the main resource page you will see special fields where you need to select certain items from pop-up lists:

• age of potential partners;
• place of residence;

After all the specified parameters are set, you can safely press the "Find" button and go to view the specific questionnaire from the proposed list. Such a functional should be enough for any lonely person to find a couple. Nothing is required. Next will have to include manual selection mode according to the following algorithm:

1. Visual assessment of potential partners. That is, every questionnaire will need to evaluate and understand how an attractive person is its author.
2. Evaluation of internal qualities. It is very important to initially determine which features of character, features of the individual will be key to you. For example, someone will find a pretty blonde, and he does not need anything else. Another, appreciating appearance, will try to figure out how clever girl is. But this is a somewhat different topic, since we are talking about search tools, and not about the psychology of selection of candidates.

Note that all this can be used for free, but the site offers and paid services. They include:

• removing restrictions;
• connect additional functions.

What can be obtained for money?

Expand the search for Mamba is possible in order to save time. Additionally, you should specify:

• the purpose of acquaintance;
• type;
• financial situation;
• preferences in sex and something else.

For example, you are looking for only those who are ready for a serious relationship. You can install a tick opposite the corresponding fields, and the system will give the contacts (questionnaires) of people with a certain right interest. In our example, it is a long serious relationship.

It is possible to customize the search extremely accurately, fill out all the necessary fields and lines. In this case, the site will find people who most comply with the declared requirements.

Recall that you can search this way, only listed a small amount in favor of site owners.

Another plus of a paid subscription is that all the questionnaires will be fully accessible.

Users who do not want to make money, profiles are shown with blurred photos. They determine how a person actually looks like, to evaluate his appearance, quite difficult. And with the question: I like it or do not like your face and figure, it is best to solve at the online dating stage.
We add that the creators of the site, in pursuit of maximum profit, quite often change the rules of the Dating game. Constantly establish new limitations: on the one hand, not annoying users to such an extent so that they go to get acquainted on third-party resources, on the other - in every way motivating people to acquire paid services.

Experienced visitors to Mamba say that in standard mode, you can view the questionnaires of the people of interest. However, a daily limit is installed. For example, on day you can read only about 30 questionnaires and no more. If the user from a small town is not scary. Surely, 3-5 new profiles of his countrymen appear per day on Mamba. If you live in a metropolis and truly want to find yourself: a lover, a companion, a soul mate, you need to seriously work, without limiting the number of questionnaires.

All services and services are available for use and through a mobile phone.

Search by ads

Apparent to dating candidacy can be found in the section, which is mentioned in the subtitle. The search for the principle described above: you must specify the parameters of the desired partner and click the "Find" button.

Need to remember the following features of the section:

1. The ads do not contain any contacts. It is impossible to go to the questionnaire. A potential partner can only be assessed on the basis of the text written by him. However, later you can always exchange E-mail addresses, pages in social networks, etc.
2. The second feature: due to the fact that the announcements are anonymous, in the section a lot of frank messages. Here are hints for sex, and direct offers of sexual services for money.

Of course, ads, diaries and other system services can be viewed as search tools. But it is better to act an old proven way, about which it was spent at the very beginning.

Search by diary

In the specified section, you can also attempt to find interesting people. However, the diary part of the site allows you to identify only those who actively leads blogs and fascinatingly writes. Therefore, an outstanding person can be found, but most likely he will not be from your city. In addition, popular bloggers on Mamba rarely seek dating. They need a certain glory, the public recognition.

How to find a concrete person?

There are situations when you need to find a specific user on Mamba. For instance:

1. You communicated with a person for a long time, but then left the site, as I thought forever. Returning, you wanted to renew the correspondence, but could not find contacts.
2. You want to test your soul mate for decency. Find out whether the guy or a girl is sitting on Mamba.
3. You want to find on the site of some familiar: classmate, a neighbor, relative, a girl with whom it was lucky to relax together. This necessity sometimes occurs. Say, a man liked a neighbor. Go to visit her and suggest relationships it cannot, because of his shyness. But write a letter on Mamba he is ready.

How to act in such situations? How to find a concrete person on Mamba, about which something is already known? As a rule, there is some information at the disposal of "Detective":

• e-mail address;
• phone number;
• surnames and name;
• nick on another site.

All this can be useful in search.

We offer to take up the following search methods:

1. Through a search engine. Since Mamba is one of the largest sites with great popularity, search engines index his pages. If, say, in Yandex, Introduce: "Ivan Ivanov, Voronezh, 30 years old, you can probably find a link to the page of this person on Mamba. Of course, provided that he is registered under his name. You can try to enter other data: telephone, e-mail, etc.
2. If you failed to find through a person's search engine, you will have to set certain parameters on the site. For example, the city of residence, age, gender. Again, it will be possible to learn the desired one if he placed reliable information about himself - at least a photo. When a fully fake page was created, nothing will come out.

It is almost impossible to find a specific person on ads.

Getting to the point with a lot of luck will turn out if the object gives itself a letter style. For example, typical word typical. But this is already from the category of real spy passions. The probability is too small.

Thus, the search on the site Mamba is implemented:

1. Standard. Similar use other resources where you can meet. The difference is only in the established limitations.
2. Clear and accessible. To detect the desired questionnaires, you must select multiple parameters and press only one button.
3. Conveniently. In general, especially with a paid status, you can easily find exactly those who need.

We are confident that the basic functions are enough to choose from an incredible set of several suitable questionnaires, start correspondence, appoint a date in real life and find your love. Who wants to do everything more quickly and efficiently, it is recommended to acquire additional "buns" for real money.

In general, as always, everyone must independently arrange priorities and act.

As for the search for specific people, everything is real here, but provided that the user has no purpose to hide their questionnaire from prying eyes.

Online space - nothing worse than the so-called "real world": losers come across here, and successful people. Applications for dating are largely more convenient - in the era, when the time becomes a resource, people prefer to meet those who share their life goals.

The chance to get acquainted with the "right" man at a party, the birthday of friends or the picture of Mukka pictures - exactly the same as on a dating site. Only "offline" is not to get off from the boning Uhager in one click.

Myth number 2. Virtual dating never go into real life

Not every bird, as we know, it takes to the middle of the Dnieper. But the majority still do it: men are registered on Mamba not in order to exchange letters with pigeons. As a rule, each of them wants to meet and chat personally.

In a study conducted by the Eharmony website, about 20 thousand respondents from the United States took part, which were married between 2005 and 2012. More than one third of the participants admitted that their marriage began with online dating, of which half took place on a dating site.

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Myth # 3. There is no one about my age

Check it is simple enough: just choose the age category you need and see how many applicants will offer you Mamba. Ready to argue, you will be surprised! There is nothing strange in this. Now students, professors, and young athletes, and motley coaches are not alien to new technologies and are not shy to get acquainted on the net.

Myth # 4. There are some perverts and chams

Yes, we will not lie to you, - they are there. Just as they are in the subway, cafes, museums, at concerts of classical music and in line for vegetables. Hama is a vital constant, nothing can be ...

Although post-ka! Why is nothing? It is enough just to send an incommant to the ban, and you will no longer see his messages. Mamba admins do not dreamed and make it possible for the purity of the resource, after three complaints the character goes to look for his happiness elsewhere.

Myth number 5. In apps for dating, everyone is lying

Fortunately, in our days, even a person who has a life on "you" with Photoshop may even distinguish a professional response photo. In fact, adequate people guess that it does not make sense to lie - it turns out that it is quickly, and the acquaintance will not lead so much.

Myth number 6. Get acquainted in the network dangerous

Not more dangerous than at a party or in the art gallery. The risk that you will rush to the maniac about the same one. It is for this that it is necessary to comply with the elementary safety rules: do not invite a man to your home on the first date and meet at a neutral territory, where many people. For example, in a cafe or outdoor. Be sure to report to someone, where and with whom you are going, leave the number of the human phone with whom you go.

Do not write in your profile anything that may indicate your identity or address.

And, of course, immediately interrupt communication as soon as his behavior will seem suspicious to you.

Myth number 7. I started a profile - nothing more needs

Need to. To write, answer, "like" - as they say, you can not even get acquainted with the man of your dreams on a dating site. If you want to get the result, throw out the constraint and come on feedback to the applicants who have come to your heart. But do not go to a long correspondence, because your goal is a real date and relationship.

In conclusion, we want to contact you. The population of Mamba 35 million active questionnaires, 55% of which are men of allas, characters and social statuses. Blondes and brunettes, smiling extroverts and thoughtful introverts, "Schwarzneggners", baristers, masts of professors, climbers, businessmen - all and not listed! And among them there is the same, unique, appropriately the person who is waiting for you while you read this article and forget about stupid myths.